Dec 7, 2006 at 11:16pm
I'd like to venture forth with a train etiquette question that's related. One morning, I sat in the front-most car of a Hoboken train with 4 other Maplewood women who knit. We were all chatting (no cell phones) primarily about the knitting. It was pretty crowded, but no one was standing. After a bit, a woman in a seat behind us, asked them/us to please keep it down as she was trying to read. One of the knitters apologized, and we all fell silent and stopped talking altogether. So, my question is this: is there an expectation that NJT cars are "quiet" cars a la Amtrak? Only the first car? During commute? For me, when I sit alone I pretty much read -- but that's my choice. If I'm sitting with someone else, we often chat -- not at the top of our lungs, or about anything personal. I thought the women who requested us to keep it down had unreasonable expectations. Really, no one was hollering, or regaling the others with personal escapades, etc. This has been bugging me since it happened a few months ago.
Very tempting ... I made a 39% (pretty good for a monogamous straight girl, right?) But I fear that if too many of us who live/lean straight crash this it wouldn't be fair and might stifle the goals that the OP mentioned. I refer to the portion quoted below: Posted By: omoh - Why do I want to be around a group of gay people? Well, because I'm gay and many gay people have experienced coming out or discrimination experiences that can give something in common to even the most different types of gay people. And gay people are not homogenous, so I would expect a wide range of diversity in such a group from male to female, from black to white to brown, from young adults to seniors, from couples to parents to singles, from conservatives to liberals, from rock climbers to knitters and more. It can be a lot of fun to be in a group of gay people and very enlightening (just joking and no offense Old Stone. Sorry, I know you've been picked on a lot and I have really enjoyed some of your threads) So, for now I think that I will send good wishes to all of you and hope that it turns out well ... and maybe down the road when it is a going concern, I'll join you guys sometime.