tjohn said:
I want to commend @Cleg for his level-headed response to this situation. He is focusing on changing the behavior of the kids and getting the school to be responsive as opposed to being punitive. That is exactly the right response. If it were me, I would hire an attorney for a variety of reasons, but I wouldn't go to the police just yet.
denniss said:
Monster said:
@denniss, So what's despicable, the offer to help the girl's in learning a little self defensive? Sounds like you would be one of those boys doing the harrasing, now that is despicable.
No, the despicable is trying to capitalize on the situation for his business.
tjohn said:
I want to commend @Cleg for his level-headed response to this situation. He is focusing on changing the behavior of the kids and getting the school to be responsive as opposed to being punitive. That is exactly the right response. If it were me, I would hire an attorney for a variety of reasons, but I wouldn't go to the police just yet.
cleg said:
My daughter is a kid and makes many stupid decisions. These boys are kids and are making stupid decisions. If there was assault you can bet I would be at the school and calling police in a second. These boys need to learn to act right - I don't think the police can help with that. I most certainly think the schools can and should. As I said previously our old school had kids coming from far worse circumstances than anyone in Maplewood and they started in kindergarten teaching respect. Yes, parents should but don't always so it is one of the roles of the school to augment - not the criminal justice system.
The District should look at this from the elementary school level and go from there.
Monster said:
A free lesson isn't exactly capitilzation. I've known bigriver for a long time and I would say it's more the fact that he's a caring soul, and knowing that he has daughters I can certainly see where his intentions are.
So what are your intentions @denniss, it seems to me as if your more like a petty little douchebaggins who thrives on bull*****. Of course I could be wrong and you're at a ll a douchebaggins.
sarahzm said:
What would the reaction be if your wife, or sister, or mother, or daughter were repeatedly followed at her workplace by a colleague who told her he wanted to get into her a** and tried to touch her inappropriately. And what would be the reaction if the only response by management and HR was to tell her to join a group of other victims who were meeting to deal with this.
Why is this absolutely not acceptable if it happens to adults, but it seems to be OK if it happens in the halls of our Middle School.
You might say , but these are only boys, they don't have adult judgment. That does not mean that this is not criminal behavior. This does not mean that young girls are being victimized. Of course it should be dealt with more leniently than if the offenders were adults. But this has been going on for years and it does not seem to be being dealt with at all.
The perpetrators may be middle school boys, but the victims are middle school girls who often don't have the tools to protect themselves that adults do.
I know that this is just a public message board, and we do not have all the facts, but based on the limited information here, it seems that the Maplewood Middle School administration has been criminally negligent and there should be consequences for their total failure to address this appropriately and legally as well.
sarahzm said:
Why is this absolutely not acceptable if it happens to adults, but it seems to be OK if it happens in the halls of our Middle School.
mjh said:
sarahzm said:
Why is this absolutely not acceptable if it happens to adults, but it seems to be OK if it happens in the halls of our Middle School.
Sarah, for crying out loud, not a single person is suggestion it's OK if it happens in the halls of our Middle School.
There are different approaches that can be taken to tackle the problem. You may not agree with the approaches suggested by others, but that doesn't mean anyone suggesting an approach different than the one you suggest thinks this behavior is not a problem.
denniss said:
Monster said:
A free lesson isn't exactly capitilzation. I've known bigriver for a long time and I would say it's more the fact that he's a caring soul, and knowing that he has daughters I can certainly see where his intentions are.
So what are your intentions @denniss, it seems to me as if your more like a petty little douchebaggins who thrives on bull*****. Of course I could be wrong and you're at a ll a douchebaggins.
A free lesson accomplishes nothing, other than create the desire for more, PAID, lessons, PLUS making him look good in contrast to his most recent history. There was, IMHO, a purely commercial purpose behind his post. Sorry you have your knickers so twisted up.
denniss said:
Now you're starting to get it...I'll bow out for the time being.
denniss said:
Now you're starting to get it...I'll bow out for the time being.
cleg said:
The District should look at this from the elementary school level and go from there.
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No, the despicable is trying to capitalize on the situation for his business.