mrincredible said:
I think if we want to keep this thread from getting yanked it would be best to discuss facts and not speculate or make assumptions.
strawberry said:
mrincredible said:
I think if we want to keep this thread from getting yanked it would be best to discuss facts and not speculate or make assumptions.
No speculation. Just stating the alleged victim's direct quote. If he antagonized the bartender as he states, he certainly is admitting some type of responsibility.
Oldstone said:
How about he antagonized him after he was verbally abused?
mrincredible said:
strawberry said:
mrincredible said:
I think if we want to keep this thread from getting yanked it would be best to discuss facts and not speculate or make assumptions.
No speculation. Just stating the alleged victim's direct quote. If he antagonized the bartender as he states, he certainly is admitting some type of responsibility.
Re-read your post and tell me it is free of speculation and assumptions.
strawberry said:
I'm guessing that this thing is eventually thrown out of court.
mrincredible said:
strawberry said:
I'm guessing that this thing is eventually thrown out of court.
Speculation. Or assumption. Take your pick.
Ditto the comment about the defendant's lawyer having a field day.
mrincredible said:
I am interested that this thread remain open as a factual discussion of the situation as it unfolds. If it turns into yet another opinion, speculation and assumption fest I can see it getting pulled.
algebra2 said:
How can there be any factual discussion when there are no facts? Just two stories and all our opinions.
Worse than that. Reading the timeline given in the article the plaintiff antagonized the defendant after the defendant punched the plaintiff in the face. The a good portion of the physical assault by the defendant preceded the verbal antagonizing by the plaintiff. Considering that the plaintiff had been insulted, spit on, grabbed, and punched, I can completely understand if at that point he lost his cool and said things he shouldn't have.Oldstone said:
How about he antagonized him after he was verbally abused?
Steve said:
algebra2 said:
How can there be any factual discussion when there are no facts? Just two stories and all our opinions.
I'm betting that there will be many more than two stories to come out of this. Bartender, others working there, Kresofsky, his friends. They'll likely all be somewhat different.
Steve said:
I wonder if this is what the reporter heard or if it was taken from the actual court transcript/recording.
meandtheboys said:
Let's see. The way I read the sequence of events:
1. "....he asked Meade for a drink at about 1:40 a.m. and Meade allegedly said no. When asked why, Kresofsky told the judge Meade made a homophobic slur aimed at him."
2. "The verbal altercation soon turned violent, Kresofsky said.'
3. "The two began shoving and grabbing. Kresofsky told the judge the two spat at each other and Meade then punched Kresofsky in the face."
4. "The two then made their way outside, he told the judge, where his friends were holding Meade back."
THEN:
5. '"I was antagonizing him," Kresofsky said.'
Which in no way justifies:
6. "[Meade].....pushed my friend and punched me in the face. Then he ran up and kicked me in the face."
The "antagonizing" came looooong after the altercation had already begun--allegedly with a homophobic slur. And AFTER the alleged victim had already been punched in the face. Not seeing "instigation" here. Not in any way, shape or form. Interesting that some do, though. And not "interesting" in a good way.
conandrob240 said:
I think an important point here is that this incident didn't involve two drunk guys sitting at the bar. One was IN CHARGE of the bar. Isn't part of the job of a bartender ( maybe even a legal obligation) to ensure that patrons behave themselves in a reasonable and safe fashion, make sure people don't get too drunk and drive, etc. if the bartender himself was already drunk and instigated a fight, doesn't that factor in somehow? Throw on top of this the homophobic slur from someone representing this local business. Those two elements make this, IMO, much more than a he said/ she said.
case said:
this is a very serious situation for the bartender and the Gate.
RVM said:
there is a legal notion of "fighting words" that may come into play if the Judge finds the anti-gay slur was used.
none of us were there- none of us know what happened. it looks bad for Meade, but i'd remind in the days right after this incident the plaintiff and/or his friends posted things in here that were not true per their ultimate complaint against the defendant. they embellished the story in here, so they are proven capable of lying.
strawberry said:
Steve said:
algebra2 said:
How can there be any factual discussion when there are no facts? Just two stories and all our opinions.
I'm betting that there will be many more than two stories to come out of this. Bartender, others working there, Kresofsky, his friends. They'll likely all be somewhat different.
and at 1:40 AM on a Monday night, I doubt there will be a sympathetic judge. The alleged victim was told to leave, left but came back. This to me indicates he came back looking for trouble. Look, again, I feel bad for everyone. I don't see bad people here, just a bad incident. Let's hope this thing is turned over to mediation so all involved can go on living their lives with a better understanding of the dangers associated with alcohol.
mod said:
strawberry said:
Steve said:
algebra2 said:
How can there be any factual discussion when there are no facts? Just two stories and all our opinions.
I'm betting that there will be many more than two stories to come out of this. Bartender, others working there, Kresofsky, his friends. They'll likely all be somewhat different.
and at 1:40 AM on a Monday night, I doubt there will be a sympathetic judge. The alleged victim was told to leave, left but came back. This to me indicates he came back looking for trouble. Look, again, I feel bad for everyone. I don't see bad people here, just a bad incident. Let's hope this thing is turned over to mediation so all involved can go on living their lives with a better understanding of the dangers associated with alcohol.
Where are you getting the version of events where the victim was told to leave, left but came back. All previous accounts -deleted from MOL indicated that the bartender would not allow the victim to get his jacket. He manhandled him in the bar and followed him out into the street. Patch doesn't have any detail to the effect you alledge. Are you a Meade Schill? or are you writing an ABC Afterschool Special?
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For example--although this is in CA: http://criminal-lawyer-blog.irvinecriminallawyer.com/2012/06/can-you-throw-the-first-punch-and-be-found-not-guilty-of-assault/