afa said:
TarheelsInNj said:
Is it common in the Catholic church that emphasis is placed on being part of the Parish? As opposed to the salvation side of it? I always assumed the latter is why Catholics feel strongly about it; that if you're a believer, you want the baby to participate in that sacrament whether the family ultimately attends church or not.
You'd think that would be the most important thing, right? That the baby is saved from eternal damnation regardless of whether the parents go to church (and, ahem,make donations) regularly...
You're not Catholic, are you?
jayjayp said:
You might want to try Notre Dame of Mt Carmel in Cedar Knolls. I know its a bit of a schlep (15 miles away), but its run by the monks and the pastor is phenomenal. It might be just what you're looking for. Ask to speak with Fr. Jude.
soorlady said:
mlj - and did they?
LOST said:
jayjayp said:
You might want to try Notre Dame of Mt Carmel in Cedar Knolls. I know its a bit of a schlep (15 miles away), but its run by the monks and the pastor is phenomenal. It might be just what you're looking for. Ask to speak with Fr. Jude.
Not really into reading this entire thread but Only in America can one "schlep" to a Catholic Church.
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Was introduced to the word on this thread. I thought maybe it was a Catholic usage.ridski said:
Cremains is really a word? I just had to look that up. Sounds like such a crass portmanteau to describe what used to be a person, but I guess it's each to their own and you live and learn and a nod's as good as a wink and all that.
ridski said:
Cremains is really a word? I just had to look that up. Sounds like such a crass portmanteau to describe what used to be a person, but I guess it's each to their own and you live and learn and a nod's as good as a wink and all that.
IM80 said:
ridski said:
Cremains is really a word? I just had to look that up. Sounds like such a crass portmanteau to describe what used to be a person, but I guess it's each to their own and you live and learn and a nod's as good as a wink and all that.
Before the recent sudden death of our son, we thought in terms of "ashes" as the proper term. Other things we learnedNwas the term "inurnment" for cremains places in a niche …entombment when a body is place in a mausoleum …internment when placed in the ground. Incidentally, the question was raised somewhere in this thread about burying an urn with another body in the ground, or burying an urn in the ground (garden plots), I believe these are options. Every industry has its preferred language, but somehow, the funeral business is over the top in euphemisms.
Our son, who would have turned 50 last month, is not "lost" nor is he "gone" nor will we " get over it". The person you loved with all of your heart remains in your heart and mind always.
IM80 said:
ridski said:
Cremains is really a word? I just had to look that up. Sounds like such a crass portmanteau to describe what used to be a person, but I guess it's each to their own and you live and learn and a nod's as good as a wink and all that.
Before the recent sudden death of our son, we thought in terms of "ashes" as the proper term. Other things we learnedNwas the term "inurnment" for cremains places in a niche …entombment when a body is place in a mausoleum …internment when placed in the ground. Incidentally, the question was raised somewhere in this thread about burying an urn with another body in the ground, or burying an urn in the ground (garden plots), I believe these are options. Every industry has its preferred language, but somehow, the funeral business is over the top in euphemisms.
Our son, who would have turned 50 last month, is not "lost" nor is he "gone" nor will we " get over it". The person you loved with all of your heart remains in your heart and mind always.
ridski said:
IM80 said:
ridski said:
Cremains is really a word? I just had to look that up. Sounds like such a crass portmanteau to describe what used to be a person, but I guess it's each to their own and you live and learn and a nod's as good as a wink and all that.
Before the recent sudden death of our son, we thought in terms of "ashes" as the proper term. Other things we learnedNwas the term "inurnment" for cremains places in a niche …entombment when a body is place in a mausoleum …internment when placed in the ground. Incidentally, the question was raised somewhere in this thread about burying an urn with another body in the ground, or burying an urn in the ground (garden plots), I believe these are options. Every industry has its preferred language, but somehow, the funeral business is over the top in euphemisms.
Our son, who would have turned 50 last month, is not "lost" nor is he "gone" nor will we " get over it". The person you loved with all of your heart remains in your heart and mind always.
I agree, IM80. Not sure I could ever think my father or my oldest sister, who died last year, as "cremains", or of any of the other euphemisms you mention, but the funeral business caters to us in our darkest times and the good ones exist to soften the blows of our grief, so I'll forgive those who work within it of a little flowery language now and then.
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I think the difference is taking the time to register and commit to being a member of the parish. They're not taking attendance or counting up contributions to judge just how committed you are.