Posted By: tylerAre the urban areas being gentrified, or are they instead spreading decay into suburbia, or neither? Are there specific neighborhoods or areas within M/SO that are to be avoided, or does the decay just begin beyond the city limits in irvington, newark, east orange, etc. We see a handful of homes listed on MLS for very reasonable prices within M/SO(
Posted By: kibbegirlHope you choose either of our great towns, Tyler! We are in the Montrose area of SO and we love it. So much in fact, when we were looking to buy another home, we moved 'round the corner from our old one! Lots of people in SO/MW do this type of move because they like their communities so much. We lived in Brooklyn and were ready to buy a home. We looked in many NJ areas, but kept returning to SO/MW. We loved the vibe, the homes, the people and the parks. It was everything we wanted. Now that we're here and settled, there are a a few things we want to change, so we get politically involved in our communities -- just like we did in Brooklyn. There were areas in B'klyn I wasn't comfy going into and the same here. No town is perfect, and that includes our two towns. But what makes MW/SO special, are the people and their lovely, warm families. My children have so many friends of different backgrounds here because of the friends we have made. My children are exposed to interracial families, families with adopted children of another race, gay families, families with one, two or no parent. It's a beautiful thing and I wish more adults were exposed to the type of culture we have in our two towns. Perfect? Nope, but awesome nevertheless. Good luck to you!

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My fiance and I are looking to move out of hoboken where we've rented for a few years. Naturally Maplewood and South Orange are attractive to us because of the easy Manhattan commute (we both work there). We've done a bit of background research - we like the housing stock and the cosmopolitan vibe (forward-leaning politics, eclectic/upscale food, etc). We took a drive through both towns this weekend and were very impressed by both - the parks were beautiful and full of people enjoying them, they both had great downtown areas, great neighborhood layouts, charming houses, and nearly everyone we saw on the street gave us a smile & a wave. It seemed almost too good to be true! However, after our brief visit, I have a few questions-
We drove through the montrose section of south orange (just for kicks - those homes are way out of our price range!) and we ended up a little too far down south orange ave (in newark i believe). Now, I've lived all over NJ and I'm pretty familiar with some rough areas, and after living in hudson county for 5 years, I've seen the worst that north bergen, union city, and jersey city have to offer. But I have to say, where we ended up on saturday was one of the scarier places I've ever been. What was even more shocking was how close the 'affluent' neighborhoods are to urban blight. There's no transition area. It seems that you are surrounded by stately colonials and tudors, then one wrong turn and you are in a war zone. So my questions are - are there any trends in the quality of these neighborhoods? Are the urban areas being gentrified, or are they instead spreading decay into suburbia, or neither? Are there specific neighborhoods or areas within M/SO that are to be avoided, or does the decay just begin beyond the city limits in irvington, newark, east orange, etc. We see a handful of homes listed on MLS for very reasonable prices within M/SO(