I was just about to post this article, as it should be repeated at the start of every pool/beach season.
IIRC, last year there was a post by someone at one of the local pools where the lifeguard blew off a parent's concern saying the child had not had "a drowning cry" or words to that effect. Scary to even think about.
For anyone who doesn't want to open the link above:
Drowning is not the violent, splashing call for help that most people expect. ... Drowning is almost always a deceptively quiet event. The waving, splashing, and yelling that dramatic conditioning (television) prepares us to look for is rarely seen in real life.
The Instinctive Drowning Response—so named by Francesco A. Pia, Ph.D., is what people do to avoid actual or perceived suffocation in the water. And it does not look like most people expect. There is very little splashing, no waving, and no yelling or calls for help of any kind. To get an idea of just how quiet and undramatic from the surface drowning can be, consider this: It is the No. 2 cause of accidental death in children, ages 15 and under (just behind vehicle accidents)—of the approximately 750 children who will drown next year, about 375 of them will do so within 25 yards of a parent or other adult. According to the CDC, in 10 percent of those drownings, the adult will actually watch the child do it, having no idea it is happening. Drowning does not look like drowning
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Look for these other signs of drowning when persons are in the water:
One way to be sure? Ask them, “Are you all right?” If they can answer at all—they probably are. If they return a blank stare, you may have less than 30 seconds to get to them. And parents—children playing in the water make noise. When they get quiet, you get to them and find out why.
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When I was a small child, I almost drowned at a beach in the tri-state area (New York/New Jersey). I was wading -- I could not swim -- and had been knocked down by rough surf. I was floating face down. I wasn't struggling or making any noise; it was almost like a dream. My older brother realized I was in trouble and yanked me up by the back of my bathing suit. Fast forward to parenthood, I was determined that my own child should swim. So for a series of summers she attended day camp at a local "Y." At the start of each new season, the instructors would "test" each child in a toddler pool to see if they could actually swim. Almost all of the children in the group excitedly claimed that they could swim. Nearly half of them could not. They simply believed that they could swim; the mechanics of swimming seems so effortless. Why, if a sea turtle can do it why not a small boy? You just flip your arms. Right? This dynamic has real life consequences when small children wander into a neighbor's yard with a pool, or the tragic cruise ship drownings of small children. Children must really learn how to swim. Period.
slate.com: Drowning Doesn't Look Like Drowning: In 10 percent of drownings, adults are nearby but have no idea the victim is dying. Here's what to look for.
http://www.slate.com/articles/...